Monday, August 6, 2012

Rendsburg Branch and a Few Anecdotes

RENDSBURG

        A week ago last Sunday, we visited one of the smaller branches of our stake in Rendsburg, which is about a 45-minute drive from Kiel. Rensburg is a town west of Kiel. The LDS Chapel is small, but very nice. When we arrived, we were 10 minutes late and they were already administering the Sacrament. The only door to the chapel was right at the front, so we waited outside and the young men brought the Sacrament out to us. Afterwards, as we entered, we could feel the Spirit so strongly. There were only about 14 people there, including us. We were told that several people were on vacation, but the branch is still very small even if you take that into consideration, and there are very few little children. A branch member conducted and gave a great talk about teaching the Gospel to our families, which was followed by an invitation to Elder Frank to bear his testimony, a hymn with the congregation, and then a talk by a High Counsel member. I happened to notice a lovely woman, a little older than us dabbing her eyes throughout the meeting. I introduced myself to her afterwards and she mentioned that she, to, had felt a wonderful spirit there that day. Then she proceeded to tell us that just a couple of weeks earlier, the Stake President had visited their tiny branch and said that they may have to dissolve their small branch and send the members to others branches or wards, if they don’t have enough people to fill the callings necessary to run the branch. She said that she has been a member of that branch since 1965. She was married twice, but both husbands had died of cancer, so she is a widow. Most of her family now lives in the US. She has a car, but doesn’t like to drive on the autobahn. She told me she has had so much joy and happiness through the Gospel that she would do whatever it takes to be able to attend her meetings, even if it means getting a ride with someone else. We also spoke with one of our Young Adult’s, Julia’s, parents, who we know pretty well because they always bring her to Institute. (Her mom always talks with me in German, which I really appreciate because it really helps me with the language.) .

        As we have mentioned earlier in our blog, our Stake President has encouraged us to visit some of the smaller branches to get to know some of the Young Adults who don’t come to FHE or Institute and this was our first visit to Rends burg. We already knew Julia, who is a beautiful young woman in our stake. She is legally blind, due to some kind of a degenerating eye disease that is progressing very fast, in fact, I think it has only been 2 years since it began. We were also able to meet a couple of others young people, a young man named Christopher who we hadn’t met before and who just recently received his mission call to Frankfurt. We also met a young lady named Hanna who is active, but who doesn’t come to Institute either. We don’t worry as much about these young adults when we know they are active. It is a long way to get to the Institute by bus or by auto, but we would love it if they would come and we know they would benefit from attending also.

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Rendsburg chapel and members and Rendsburg missionaries

        On our way home, as I thought about the Spirit I felt while I was there, I couldn’t help but get emotional. I would hate to see that beautiful little church being dissolved or even the building sold; and what would happen to the wonderful people there? It was a sobering moment for both Elder Frank and me. In his testimony, Elder Frank talked about the Pioneers and the challenges they had faced. It was on his and my mind because Ben and Bethany had just gotten back from a Pioneer Trek. They both talked about how hard it was: hot weather, always dirty, and the physical and emotional struggles. And yet when they got back, they both said they would do it again “in a heartbeat”. It was one of the most spiritual experiences they had ever had. When Elder Frank mentioned the pioneers and Ben and Bethany’s trek in his testimony he could see several members get quite emotional as did he. Later, a few thanked him and then we also discovered what the Stake president had said might happen to the branch. The people in this small branch are pioneers; their treks are different than those of the Saints coming to Utah, but with difficulties nonetheless. We are praying that they will see some growth in their beautiful little branch, and we know they have excellent missionaries in the area. I know that these people have testimonies of this Gospel and they are wonderful people.

A Klingel Story

        Though not a spiritual story, the story of our klingel (our doorbell) I hope is worth telling. Below is a photo of our nameplate next to the doorbell. As in most apartments, all of the outside doorbells and nameplates are grouped together so that visitors and postmen can quickly see who lives there. In order to get into the apartment door, you have to ring the doorbell, someone answers and either opens the main door or tells you to go away. Its a nice secure feature.

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        This story only has to do with our nameplate. Below our name (FRANK) is the name of the church. Apparently, someone in the building took offense at our nameplate. FRANK was OK, but they didn’t like the name of the church being there. We didn’t realize there was a problem until a couple of weeks after we moved in. I went to get our mail (The mail box is inside the main door and also has the same nameplate on it as the one outside) and noticed that someone had replaced our nameplate with one that only had our name on it. The name of the church was missing. I figured that maybe the Hausmeister (House Manager) may have changed it for some reason. I looked outside the main door and that nameplate was also changed. At first I thought he was just trying to make everything look uniform, or maybe he wanted a bigger font. I didn’t like the fact that he didn’t bother to ask us before changing it. We decided to print our original label again and change it back. We did, and again a few days later it was changed back to just our name. While we were going back and forth, we were also waiting for a package to arrive with a new router we had ordered. We didn’t have internet in the apartment and had called our internet and phone company who said our current router wouldn’t work because our computer was too new. The phone calls, by the way, stretched my German vocabulary way beyond its useful life. But, with help from brother Törsten, a German member who is great with technology, we got the router ordered. We were anxious for the package to arrive.

        Getting back to the Klingel problem, after several weeks waiting for the package, I called the company to find out the problem. They said the package had been returned because the postman couldn’t find the address. Now the Klingel problem was getting out of hand. The package was addressed to the church because the church has the contract with the phone company. I called the company, explained the problem and they agreed to send the package again. At that point, we decided to print a whole page of labels with our name and the church’s name underneath. We figured whoever was changing the nameplate would get tired of changing them and either give up or knock on our door and talk to us personally.

        The package arrived and the perpetrator had ceased changing the label. We thought all was good. Then I got a call from the mission home. They had received a formal letter from the corporation who owns our building explaining that a renter in our building took offense at the expression …Heiligen der Letzen Tagen (Latter-day Saints) and they wanted it changed. Neither Elder Williams from the office (a former attorney) nor I could figure why they would object to Latter-day Saints, but if it was a big deal we would change it to just the initials HLT. So that’s when Nancy and I made another page of labels that read as above on photo.

        That was good for another couple of weeks until I got another call from Elder Williams. Another letter had come this time indicating that we needed to get rid of the whole name of the church. Elder Williams said he would forward the email to me and asked me to call the people, explain our position, and take care of it. I said I would. Our position is simple. The room is rented by the church so the name needs to be there and there are various people who come and go, and their name needs to be there also.

        I made the call to a nice lady who I am sure didn’t want to be in the middle of this thing. After several diplomatic attempts at explaining our position, and her suggesting diplomatically that they weren’t good enough, I finally asked her if she was really suggesting that we change the thing or move out because someone doesn’t particularly like our religion. At that she backed off and said of course she wasn’t saying that, and that she would talk to the other renter and see if she couldn’t work it out. A week later she called and said the renter was now OK with things and she was happy too.

        Sister Frank and I are thinking of having an open house and inviting all the renters so we can introduce ourselves. Maybe that would help ferret out our offended party. And who knows, perhaps he/she will turn out to be a golden contact!!

Photos & Tidbits

        

Road Repair and Parking:

A week or so ago, there was repair done on the road outside our apartment. There went our parking place. I saw the notice on our apartment and all other apartments on our road indicting that repair work would be done and to move your car. I’m glad a read that notice. They started early one morning and when I looked outside there were tractors and equipment tearing up the road and several cars trying to get out by driving on the grass. Some never made it. I had parked at the nearest grocery store. Below was just a photo of the tail end of the work as they were preparing to lay the asphalt.         

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I parked at the SKY (the grocery store) for a couple of weeks. While there our cozy red Opel made a friend. It’s the red Alpha Romeo. They’re almost like twins, aren’t they!

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Recycling Phobia

Both Sister Frank and I miss our garbage collectors. She has mentioned the several trash bins we use as we separate various materials. Thought you might like to see some additional bins we need to use to dispose of glass. 1. Bin on the left for clear glass 2.) Bin on the right for Colored glass. The Stopp sign near the hole gives you a series of things you better not do before you throw the bottle into the hole. I read it very carefully before throwing everything into the hole. Some day I’ll probably get a call from the “bottle police”.

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Rent-a-Cart

One of the great German ideas to keep shopping carts in place and not scattered all over-- It costs you an Euro (1,00 €) to get a cart. Notice in the photo, all are chained together. You put in an Euro (about $1.25) and you get the cart. When you’re through you just lock it back up and the Euro comes right back to you. All the carts are aligned and there are no boys outside the store pushing long lines of carts toward the doors, no one just leaves their carts so they don’t run into other autos, and they are all under a little arch covered garage to keep them from getting wet or dirty. Pretty good idea, huh?

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McDonald’s in German

I had to take these last two photos. We love our McDonalds here in Kiel. When we are tired, discouraged or just a bit homesick, we can always count on the golden arches to take us back… or at least to give us a laugh. Below is a McRib box from which Sister Frank enjoyed a taste of home. I was impressed with the 21 letter word Geschmacksvolltreffer. As far as I can tell, it means a “full-of-flavor-hit” Sister Frank agreed.

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Reading this side panel on the box really makes me hungry. Basically it reads “How much spice can fit into a burger? Those who love strong flavor must come to a ‘McRib’. With its inimitable hearty sauce and the best pork meat, it throws it at you exactly. As it is: Bite firmly.” What can I say. It’s a McRib for me next time.

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4 comments:

  1. Wow, I can't imagine only having 14 people at church! I hope the members in Rensburg are able to keep their branch. I'm also glad the doorbell situation was resolved. I can't wait until the people in the apartment complex get to know both of you. They will see what great people you are and they'll probably wish they had never switched your name plate. :) Anyway, thanks so much for posting. I look forward to these updates!

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  2. Your experience in Rendsburg is touching. What a great lesson to all of us!

    Sounds like your mission is providing several physical fitness opportunities - ALL the walking!!!! You'll be ready to sign up for some walking marathons when you get back!

    Love it all, thanks for sharing!

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  3. Hello Elder and Sister Frank,

    My name is Noel Frame and I am Elder Spencer Frame's mother! I just read your latest post about your visit to the Rendsburg branch. I saw the photo you took of Elder Frame and his companion. Spencer had just told us about the news of breaking up the branch that came from the Stake President. He was very upset to see how the news was taken by some of the seemingly more faithful members. I am so glad to hear that the Spirit was strong in that branch. We have been praying for those people. That their hearts will be touched and they will somehow be able to make it through this difficult time. Change can be so hard! I love reading your blog. Thanks for sharing your experiences! Carry on!
    -Noel

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  4. Oh you two are having way too much fun. I loved this post. I do hope the little branch get's to stay. What a spiritual treat you must have when attending the meetings. I did smile over your story of the mail box. It is amazing that they can pick out some little thing to complain about then again maybe we do the same things here. The politics are getting rather interesting for sure. I think the open house idea is great. As for your construction outside; I can complain longer and louder on this one. We have been under constant construction for the whole summer. Finally, they have the street completed. The dust has been horrible. Also, the grassed area across the street is dieing. It is not beautiful as we were told it would be. You can just image the Larsen's are very sad on this one as are we.
    I do want to talk with you soon. We miss you but are thrilled you are serving this mission. I am usually home all day on Monday's. Have a blessed week. Love to you both!

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